Showing posts with label time management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label time management. Show all posts

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Take time to Play in the Rain

A couple of days ago, Little Man and I had the opportunity to visit a local amusement park. We went in the afternoon in hopes of seeing the night parade. We were prepared....had a plan...even added an umbrella and rain slicker to our bag of goodies "just in case." Thirty minutes after our arrival at said park -- the proverbial bottom dropped out of the sky. I am not talking just a drizzle but a full-on downpour. My typical response would have been to turn and head back to the car to salvage what was left of the day. Instead, we donned the rain slickers. I turned to my son and said "what do you want to do?" He looked at me with his face ever-so-slightly peeking out of his head covering and said "let's just walk around." Well, for those that know me -- I am more the "wait it out" kind of girl but that day I threw caution to the wind, pulled up the hood on my newly minted rain poncho and did just as the young master had instructed -- we started to "walk around." At this point, the street that only minutes earlier was packed with people, was now a virtual open highway for me and my stroller riding friend to explore. So, as others were crouched under eaves, standing in doorways or mulling inside the stores -- Little Man I headed down the middle of the street. I am sure folks were looking at us -- well they had to -- we were kind of the only thing to look at other than the rain -- but anyway they were looking at us and thinking "what are they nuts???" Nuts or not, we proceeded down our normal path but something funny happened. When we came to our routine stopping place for our first ride, Little Man wanted to keep going. So, keep going is what we did. That day, we put aside our normal check list and we began to see things in the park that we never paid attention prior. We are fortunate to be able to visit on a frequent basis so we already know which way to go and when to get there in order to hit all the places on our "to do" list. As we walked that day, we tried new rides, came across a restaurant we didn't know existed (and the food was pretty good), and found a new favorite dessert - -all because we "just walked around." That day got me to thinking. How often in the busyness of life and making sure I mark everything off on my agenda, do I miss out on "blessings?" How often do I take for granted what is around me all the time? How often do I miss the joy of something new in order to search for the routine. As I reflected on God. I realized that humans have been doing this for as long as we've been around. Adam and Even were so intent on having it all that they didn't realize what they had was paradise - the place all of us yearn to be. The Israelites lost focus on the fact that God was with them with the Ark of the Covenant and began to focus on what the ark itself could do for them -- not the fact that they were in the very presence of God. The disciples didn't realize that Jesus was fully God walking and talking with them daily until He was gone. We all get busy, often times too busy. Yes, we all have responsibilities and things that "have to be done" yet we still can take time to enjoy the everyday blessings God has out there for us. Sometimes, they are found in the small things like new desserts and unbeaten paths and other times, they can be found in spending a little time in the Word and communing with the Creator of the Universe and of all time.

All these blessings will come upon you and accompany you if you obey the LORD your God: Deut 28:2 (NIV)
My take-away from the other day -- to not take a moment for granted -- blessings are all around me. I am going to challenge myself to take the advice of Little Man and "just walk around" more often and see where God takes me. After all, the things on my list will be there when I get back to them. Now, gotta go and "play in the rain." How about you? Dear Father - thank You for using the rain and my son to show me that everything doesn't have to be planned and that it is okay to slow down and just "be." I pray that You continue to remind me that You created everything for us and the blessings abound, if I would "just walk around" and see where You lead me. Thank You for Your love and grace even though I don't deserve once ounce of it. In the Blessed Name of Jesus - AMEN Application:
  • Have you taken time to slow down and truly enjoy everything around you?
  • Is your "to do" list keeping you from seeing and experiencing God -- even in Ministry?
  • Pray that the Lord will open your eyes to see the blessings He has for you - encouragement in the little things.

Monday, February 25, 2008

Time to Nurture....

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness...." Matt 6:33a (NIV) - emphasis mine Where does the time go? It seems like it was just yesterday that I wrote my last Blog entry but now it's Monday and this is the first time I have been able to log on and write. I find the writing and sharing of my thoughts to be very therapeutic. There has a been a wonderful benefit to writing these entries - I am growing closer the Lord. Just by the effort of expressing my heart and researching the scriptures, my walk improves with Him. Unfortunately, I have allowed so many things to get in the way the last couple of days, not only with my blog with with my own personal quiet time with the Lord. The enemy makes everything else seem so much more important and allows me to rationalize and push aside my time with God. Not that I was doing anything immoral or sinful in a perverse way. I simply was living my life -- taking care of the taxes, helping my hubby with his resume, playing a mindless game on the computer, chasing my 4year old around after several rounds of breathing treatments, cleaning the house, etc. I have things to show for my efforts, so called "fruits of my labors" such as the high score on Peggle, a clean house, a completed resume for hubby, and a asthma-free kiddo. Needless to say, these things do not feed my soul nor cultivate my walk with the Lord. How often do we push aside our time with God saying we'll get to it later but we never do? That same type of mentality would not bode well with any other relationships we are privileged to have in our lives. Spouses, children, friends, family members, co-workers, etc would not be so understanding yet we feel that the God of the universe can somehow be okay with it? My take away this week is that I need to make time for Him everyday, several times a day. I need analyze what I am spending my time on that can be curtailed -- such as TV or computer games. Not to say the Lord has anything against me watching a "clean" show on TV or playing a stressful game of Peggle. What I am saying is that when it comes at the expense of our relationship then something must change. I want my attitude and my desire to be to spend time with Him first and all other activities come second. I think with this process, I will be more blessed and my heart and soul won't feel empty. I want to invite the Lord into all aspects of my life and activities. He is after all, my closest friend and my Heavenly Father. He is the most important relationship in my life and our interaction greatly impacts all others in my life. I am a better wife, mother, friend, leader, etc when I am closer to God. He is and should be the center of my universe. I need to make some conscious changes so that He knows and feels that too!! What changes do you need to make? We can do it together. I'll be praying for you and I ask that you pray for me. Dear Father - Please forgive me for allowing the routines of life to get in the way of our time together. I pray that you help me to pay close attention to our relationship and nurture it just as I do the other relationships in my life. AMEN Application:

  • Does the busyness of life preclude you from spending time with the Lord?
  • What things or activities can you cut out of your life in order to spend more time with Him?
  • Pray that the Lord will open your eyes to matters that don't really matter.
  • Pray for Him to help you organize your life to get more peace and do away with the clutter that impacts us all.